Learn this now before you are older: 
Don’t go through life with a chip on your shoulder, 
Always aggrieved and ever offended, 
Fancying wrongs that are not intended. 
Let not a sense of humor desert you, 
Take it that nobody means to hurt you, 
Find no insult in idle chatter,
Pass it over; it doesn’t matter. 
Look for the best in everybody, 
Value the wool, forget the shoddy; 
Get in the habit of liking people. 
Love is the spire on every steeple.